Mentoring Program Builds Bonds

Laura Painter and first-grader Eleanor Favero let their creativity shine during Mentor Day.

Laura Painter and first-grader Eleanor Favero let their creativity shine during Mentor Day.

Once a month you can walk through Carlisle’s Lower School and witness something truly special. The laughter and excited chatter spilling out of the classrooms and the beaming faces can mean only one thing – it’s Mentoring Day.

For five years now, the Mentoring Program has been a highlight of school life for the Lower and Upper School students. Students in Preschool through 5th grade are paired with students in the 9th through 12th grades, meeting once a month to play games, draw pictures and take part in other school-planned activities.

Upper School Director Gayle Jessee and Lower School Director Neal Meyer spearheaded the program as a way for Upper School students to make a lasting impression on a young child’s life, and for the Lower School students to establish a deep connection with a positive role model.

“The Upper School students take pride in being able to serve as a role model and example for the Lower Schoo

l students,” Jessee explained. “The program is very important to the Upper School students because it gives them a concrete opportunity to provide community service in one of their personal communities – their school.”

Jessee works on updating the mentor pairings as students graduate and new students enroll at Carlisle. At the start of the program, she began by randomly assigning pairings but quickly learned that maintaining the same pairings year after year facilitated a much better bond and experience for both the mentor and the mentee.

Meyer witnesses that bond frequently as students pass each other around campus. “When one of my students sees their mentor in the hallway, their face lights up. To be acknowledged by an upperclassman is an amazing feeling. It gives each child someone to look up to, and their mentor is someone who will help make their experience at Carlisle special,” she said.

Because of the success of the program over the years, Meyer said that she would like to expand it to the Middle School and also to the elementary-age students at Carlisle’s Danville Campus. Her next step is to pair 4th grade students in Danville with the 3-year-old preschoolers.

“When young students feel the acceptance and encouragement that an older student can provide, they become strengthened to take on challenges and to achieve in ways that they had not previously thought possible,” Jessee said. “Reciprocally, when older students establish bonds with younger students, they have the opportunity to develop leadership and communication skills that will serve them well throughout their college career and future life experiences.”

Carlisle School prides itself on being a family, and the Mentoring Program has certainly become an integral part in creating that supportive learning environment.